Grow ~ 2

Grow here

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me: mommy~ mommy~ i need your help~ how do i do this?
mommy: go ask your daddy.

me: daddy~ daddy~ i need your help~ how do i do this?
daddy: do it yourself.

me: i have no confidence~
daddy: you have no confidence because you never try. go do it yourself. i will be there for you and support you if i see you cannot handle them. but the main stage is yours.

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by the way, "face your fear, and you will become a bigger person" was the very first advise i receive here in this group.